Help!

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Why is it that the ‘help’ we give to others is so often completely at odds with the help we wish to receive for ourselves?
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We arrogantly think we know better; we try to ‘help’ by making others act in the same way we would act. Or in the same way that everybody else would act.
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And yet, the help we require for ourselves is simply to be allowed to be… to have permission to be ourselves, to find our way, to make our own mistakes without criticism or ridicule.
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Let’s take note, release the grip, admit that we don’t have it figured out yet…
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And then simply be there for others while they sort their own stuff out.
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And we get there by doing the same for ourselves… we can’t give away what we don’t have.
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So let’s give ourselves permission to find our way and to make our own mistakes without self-criticism or ridicule.
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This is called self-love. It is more powerful than you can imagine.
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